I am sure 99% of the people would not step into such a blog title; this is natural because we are conditioned like that since our birth. We always equate birth to "happy" and death to "sad" knowing very well that being mortal means a death always comes with a birth. Unlike birthday which occurs every year after a birth and gets celebrated most often, we get some sort of experience in organizing a birthday event. We know the exact date, giving us ample time to plan (inviting people, making arrangements, planning venue, planning food) the birthday and added to this you could go onto any e-commerce site and order the arrangements. Everything is comfortably done, for a birthday, because the date and time is known prior. However death in a family come knocking suddenly and without any prior appointment which makes planning ahead of time impossible. Added to that in a big city most of us are unaware what to do and then there is a limited time frame to do the needful. ...